She is married to French President Nicolas Sarkozy. Allen is 74. He is a screenwriter, writer, musician and, as is most widely known, a film director. Starting to list some details brings up some common points between them, but there is something they have in common which transcends all these similarities I mentioned. Can you guess what it might be? Both Bruni and Allen have been seeing a psychoanalyst for a long time.Allen is famous for his endless appetite for analyses, but Bruni revealed very recently that she had also been in psychoanalysis for eight years. I don’t know the exact time span over which Allen has been seeing his therapist, but if I had to guess, I’d say it has been ages. I saw his television interview on YouTube that he gave when he was 35 and in which he said he had been seeing his therapist for the previous 13 years. As far as I know, Allen continued receiving therapy for many years after this interview. If Bruni and Allen are talking about classic psychoanalysis, they must have been seeing their analysts at least three times a week. Can you imagine how long they had been struggling to understand or to better themselves or something in their lives?
My suspicion is that Allen is a kind of abuser; he uses this process to brighten his creative mind. You can see symbols, thoughts, anecdotes from the psychoanalysis process or related to the unconscious in almost everything he produces. The characters he portrays in his films are almost always deeply neurotic people seeking happiness, the most recent example being “Vicky Cristina Barcelona.” It is a magnificent piece of art and an Allen classic, but look at it from this perspective and you will see what I mean.
Even if I am right and even if he has been abusing psychoanalysis to a certain extent, at least at the very beginning he must have been trying to look into himself. Bruni seems quite honest and genuine in her endeavor. She was looking for the true Carla, no doubt about it. When it comes to couples, it is generally held that the wrong spouse seeks psychological consultation; meaning the healthier one goes to the doctor instead of the pathetic one. Visualizing a picture in which Mr. Sarkozy is standing on his toes in order to make himself look taller, I cannot forget this generalization about spousal behavior when it comes to therapy.
I believe every one of us is like an onion. There are many layers within us. Some spend their entire lives only knowing their outer cover. Some, in addition to the outer cover, know a few extra layers. When it comes to the “core” of the onion, I believe, there are only a few people who know what lies deep inside them. Our fast-food culture encourages us to consume everything very quickly. I have a deep respect for people like Allen and Bruni, who genuinely try to understand themselves through a process that takes so much time. I only wish there could have been a shorter and less painful way to do it. Can we look deep inside the onion without the help of psychoanalysis? Is there any real alternative to it? I wish I could talk to Allen and Bruni to learn from their experiences. Do you recommend going the way they’ve gone?